Pro Exploit

I’m borrowing this title from David DeAngelo, the author of the Double Your Dating series. You can purchase his ebooks and video series at DoubleYourDating.com. I am not an affiliate of him and this is not a paid advertisement. I’ve simply purchased an ebook of his in the past and and I’m going to be rehashing some general impressions he has made upon as well as other content.

Attraction to another person, whether male or female, is never a choice and because of this, if you read people well and understand conversational manipulation, you can create a situation in which someone is attracted to you. I’m going to be writing from the male point of view, but many of the same psychological ideas apply to women.

You want what you can’t have:

As humans, we always seem to desire the things that we don’t have and become less satisfied when we don’t have it. See my article on wanting what you can’t have for more detail.

You get one chance, maybe:

People are never good as we expect them to be. When we meet someone, we create an impression of them in our head and as we learn more information about them we modify the image we’ve created. That’s one of the reasons that “mysterious” guys seem to do so well with women. The best chance you’ll have at attracting someone is shortly after you meet. For some people, they can be attracted almost immediately but many people need to see you a couple of time. Once you’ve blown it one time, you usually don’t get another try.

Subconscious attraction:

There are certain qualities that EVERYONE is attracted to. For example, how many people do you know that would say confidence is a turn off? Some people take it too far and are completely full of themselves, but confidence is never a bad thing to have. Another thing all people are attracted to is humor. Everyone has a different sense of humor so what’s funny to you may not be funny to the person you’re going for, but everyone rates humor positively.

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